We are moving into our first apartment and I do everything. I drove to the apartment to see it, planing the move in day, booking the uhaul, saving up money, planning when to get the keys, bought 99.5% of everything to make sure we aren’t sleeping on the floor and making sure we got everything we need. I’m overwhelmed and he doesn’t understand why. It’s supposed to be 50/50, not 95/5.