Another MIL story 🙄

Went to my fiancé’s work to give him lunch on his lunch break. When he comes out to my car he is on the phone with his mother. I don’t really know the beginning of their conversation but towards the end he asks her what she wants for Christmas, all I hear is his end and he just says no I’m talking about a real gift, he says something else and then gets off the phone. All he did was shake his head in an irritated way. I asked him what she said and he just said nothing and I told him to just tell me and he said no it will just piss me off. I told him to just tell me so he did. THIS WOMEN HAD THE NERVE to tell him that she wants a WRITTEN STATEMENT STATING SHE WILL GET VISITATIONS OF MY CHILD! 🤬😤😡 um excuse me?! No but hell no. She told him she wants that because she thinks I hate her and constantly tells him that every time he is on the phone with her. He didn’t “put her in her place” until after I left from taking him food. But when he told me what he then said to her, he said she told him she didn’t mean it the way she said it and he told her he knows she meant it the way she said it. He did get pissy with her I guess. But he gave me the excuse of she’s depressed with her health and her diagnosis with diabetes. I do not care if she is depressed with her health she’s that way because she doesn’t take care of her self I have no sympathy for people like that. She’s got diabetes because she’s not taking care of her weight or eating a little better than she does. Do not take your personal issues out on me and my child, my unborn child at that! My child is not a possession nor do you have rights over my child! My own mother never did this to my sister when my sister was having resentment towards our mom for something that happened between them. Nor has she ever thought of that. My fiancé told me he does want to have a sit down talk with his mom just him and her, to voice how him and I have been feeling about the way she has been acting. I told him he needs to stop using her health as an excuse. I work in health care so yes I know it’s upsetting to get the news you have diabetes but the type she has is able to be managed to where she doesn’t have to have to check her sugars or take insulin. My grandmother had the same diabetes she has and she changed her diet and her lifestyle (she’s in a nursing home but changed a lot) and no longer has to monitor her sugars or take insulin, as her doctor put it she basically is no longer diabetic. So yes if his mother was to change her diet and exercise she would be healthier than she is. So no I have no sympathy for her because she refuses to do anything to change, her own mother has tried to get her to change and go out on walks with her. I’m just ranting now 🙄🤐