Marriage Failing

Hi.

I'll try to keep this short and organized but I am emotional.

My husband has 3 kids from his x-wife.

I have 2 daughters and we have 1 son together.

When we first started dating, his xwife caused all types of trouble. N he constantly used her to make me jealous. (Hung pictures of her on the fridge, told me i couldn't move in with him bc he was letting her move in..... Ugh) I should have ran, but i always forgave n he promised to block her and just communicate directly with the kids. (They are 12, 15, & 17)

Well, my x just went to the court and filed for visitation w my daughter after 6yrs of being absent.

I spent over 4k on a lawyer to try n stop it but he got his supervised visits granted... My husband n i were talking to my daughter's dad after the visits one night.

We all three decided to just communicate directly instead of going back to court n paying lawyers again. Now, keep in mind, my x asked if he could talk to my husband about visits n Christmas but my husband said, "no, take Sarah's number bc it's between you 2"

Here's the issue:

My x cancelled his last supervised visit bc hes sick so he texted me and asked if he could see her this weekend for an hour since the visits would be over anyway. I responded by saying we will be out Saturday but Sunday is fine.

My husband lost his shit! He called me, yelled at me, hung up on me and brought up that he doesn't talk to his x. (Yea he does, he just calls the kids to talk to her......) N my daughter is 6, she doesn't have her own phone.

Guys i dont know what you do. I asked my husband the other night what i should do when my x wants to communicate and he said he doesn't care and now im in trouble.... Wtf

Update. Pic is a text i just got .... HOURS after my text about loving my husband... We have a 3 month old 😭