Mixed Family Rant

Sooo im mixed, Mom is white and Dad is Black but I look more white,maybe hispanic. I love both sides of my family but have a hard time visiting my Dads side. My Dads side of the family are constantly making jokes or statements that just irk me and I don't want my 2 kids around it.For instance they say stuff like "white women dont know how to please our men", "Kevin(my dad) you lost your tastebuds because your ex wife didnt know how to use seasoning,no white girl does" and then my uncle (dads brother) has mixed kids and they are always on him about his kids hair,saying "poor babies,bring them to me. I at least know how to do their hair"...Yall,the list could go on and on and I find it way out of line and disrespectful. Im tempted to say somthing but then im gonna hear "you white women are crazy/emotional". How would yall go about this?