Afraid for the rest of my life

I am really struggling with forgiveness right now. I mean, I’m 34 and I’ve been through things in my life that I wouldn’t wish on anyone😕 Years ago, I asked God to help me to forgive my Uncle for molesting me when I was only 5 years old. I believed in my heart that i had forgave him and I prayed for him because he clearly is a sick man who needs help. But now that I’m a mom of a beautiful little girl😌... I can’t stop this anxiety that I have about her growing up in this world😣 I’m so overprotective of her and her father is too.. but no one understands why we’re this way. She does not go to Daycare anymore and when she did, I worked there and kept my eyes on her.. She has never spent the night anywhere without us being with her... I don’t even let anyone watch her without one of us being there for longer than a few minutes. I can’t stand when she’s out of my sight for too long because it makes me think the worst😞 Her uncle/my brother loves her sooo much and she’s just now starting to get used to him because she is afraid of men other than her dad.. I want to leave her with my mom so bad so my husband and I can have a date night out alone but I refuse to do it because she has a new husband and I don’t want her around him unless we’re there either. I feel like I’m trapped in my mind and terrified that the things that happened to me, might happen to my daughter if I don’t protect her. I don’t want her to grow up sheltered and afraid of the world because I’m afraid for her, but I don’t know how to change. I forgave my uncle years ago, but I hate him all over again for the stains he’s left on my heart.