Two months to see baby

My bf is trying to start this new job, and I don’t want to be here by myself. So I said if I’m here by myself I don’t want to deal with his mother or my mother so I’m probably not going to call either of them for my sanity. I will call my cousin who has a kid to be there with me for support. I’m the type of person that is like if I call you once ,and you don’t answer then I’m not calling again. Probably call my aunt as she is reasonable and can help since she’s a nurse.

I don’t want visitors for two months so I can heal and bond with my baby. I already feel I didn’t get to announce what I was having cause his mom and my mom took it upon themselves to announce it to the world 😒. So I want my baby to myself for two months. They know what a baby looks like so two months won’t kill them to wait. I also don’t want them posting pictures without permission (for different reasons). My bf thinks I’m being unreasonable but those two at the same time will literally drive me to go cut myself. So to avoid all that I want two months of healing and baby bonding no visitors at all.

We are also moving to a bigger apartment so I want to tell him don’t give out the new address so the two month rule will be followed or I won’t open the door.