Wow.. alright

So some of you know that I met a guy in the army and after we spent the weekend together he got distant, etc etc.

Well my friend sent me a screen shot of his tinder (he deleted his tinder when we started talking)

I confronted him and he said he made a new one when we fought and he thought it was over. Then when we worked things out, he stopped using it but didn’t delete it.

Thing is.. his follower/following list on Instagram has been going up. And him taking forever to reply and barely saying anything was because he was on tinder talking to other girls. He said he hasn’t since we worked things out but idk.... he was distant.

I just don’t get why he didn’t tell me he wasn’t into me. And I don’t know why he kept saying he was if he was on tinder. He said he only wanted me, that he wasn’t talking to anyone else. I dunno I feel really hurt.

He said the reason he got distant was because in person I apparently didn’t show him physically that I liked him. Yes I was shy. No he didn’t try to sleep with me.

I just don’t get it. Why does this always happen to me 😭 I liked him so much and it’s so hard to find someone with great conversation skills /: ugh

I don’t know what to do