How would you feel?

I’m babysitting for a friend today, she dropped her baby off and the baby has extreme cradle cap (I know cradle cap means nothing to her parenting skills, almost all baby’s get it) but it’s all the way to her eyebrows and everything. And I noticed her neck and behind her ears are kinda red. Would it be wrong of me to put some coconut oil on her cradle cap and get rid of some of it? Do you think she’d take it as me saying she’s doing something wrong? Shes young and a first time mom and I know how hard the first few months are and she already beats herself up for her baby being small.