Christmas is ruined

She said all this before calming down and asking me if my bf and I could come around 2-3 Christmas Day. Are you fucking kidding me? She completely blew up on me during the call so I hung up bawling my eyes out. I thought EVERYONE WORKED Christmas Day! That’s what she told ME. That’s why I planned it like I did! I was just trying to also split it up so my boyfriend could see his family since his mom works Christmas Day, and I could see my family. But no, my mom wants to be greedy, call me selfish, tell me not to bother coming, and be toxic towards me.