Depression. Husbands.pissed off wife

I just need to vent. I have a history of depression that's one of the reasons why I stopped breastfeeding. I was starting to feel my self get down and I was so hard on my self. I needed to be healthy for baby. My marriage has been struggling alot, since having my baby. I want to give up on my husband. I love him so much. But I'm tired of being empathic towards him because he's a dude and asking for help and just everything pisses me off why do I have to try to talk things out and try to make our marriage work but wtf doesn't he fucking try!!