Could you feel when you were dilated? Please read.

I’m 39 weeks and go for induction next week (due to multiple problems) and I have not been checked to see if I am dilated at all. My question is could you feel a difference when you were dilated? I have had so much pressure and period like cramps for the past few days I’m wondering if I’m starting to dilate or I’m just feeling normal 39 week pains. I feel terrible to say the least between (TMI) extremely watery diarrhea that’s kept me up all night, the cramps, pressure, hip & back pain, and just feeling OFF for the past few days I am so ready to get this boy out! If he would like to come at any second he is welcome preferably NATURALLY (without being induced I hear the medicine sucks) this is my first baby so I have no clue what I’m feeling.