Issue with Boyfriend (?)

( Quick note: 1) I didn’t know what to title this. 2) my mans is a good guy! He would never do anything that makes me uncomfortable or would hurt me! )

My boyfriend and I are sexually active on a fairly regular basis. We don’t use condoms because every kind we’ve tried irritates the living heck out of my 😺. Good news though is that I’m on Nexplanon birth control so it’s all good.

But lately he’s had a much stronger interest in finishing inside me. The idea of this freaks me out even though I am on birth control. Anyways, I tell him no, and he ends up unable to finish. I feel feel awful, but don’t want to risk a possible pregnancy. When I told him my thoughts and how awful I felt, he basically told me that the thought of him finishing inside me is the only thing that gets him off.

Thoughts or suggestions as to how I can talk to him about this issue would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

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