Is it me?????

I feel like I’m a nuisance to everyone. My husband doesn’t help with the kids until he’s completely frustrated with me and then takes his anger out on the kids. “Screaming and yelling”. I literally have no help no one to speak to. He’s always acting like I’m starting arguments when I simply ask for help. He acts like he does everything and I just feel completely shitty because I’m a stay at home mom and he’s the one making money. He try’s to flip it all on me every single time we argue like I’m the issue.