Distance because of hurt

My boyfriend hurt my feelings recently and because of that, I have not been very warm and loving to him. I also notice that when I am sad or upset (for example because of an argument we have had), I can’t find the energy to be nurturing and to cook for him. It’s like, why does he deserve for me to take care of him if he made me cry? I guess it’s just a normal reaction. I feel bad about it, but I also don’t. I love him but I don’t know how to continue to approach him in general. I just...I don’t know....if he made me cry, it does not encourage me to come to him. You don’t make somebody cry and expect that person who cried to crawl back and love on you. At that point, it’s your turn to say sorry and make that person feel better so both people can move on and be happy again.