Do u think it's my right as the mother

So I'm due to have a c section in 2-3 weeks , at 36 and half weeks . Well my husband and I have been dealing with so much family bullshit from his dad. I mean horrible long story short my husband has worked for the family business ( building pools ) for a long time. The pool company is under my husbands pool license, my husband has a CDL license as well . He does so much for the company!! His brother works for them and he doesbt do shit !! He doesn't wanna drive or anything bc he said he has so much anxiety !! Well did I mention that there 6 years apart !!! My husband is older .

Well my father in law can be so nasty to his sons . Everything is about this damn company every phone call everytime we do a family gathering that's all that is ever talked about and I'm so sick of hearing about this shitty company that doesnt have a 401k or. Retirement and isnt making the money that it should and bottom line its just going under , it's been going for 12+ years and it hasn't done crap !! Well we have a 3 year old and now we are going to have a newborn we have another mouth feed !! So back in Sept my brother in law brought up an idea for them to buy this over the road trucking company from our friend and use there authority to make money.. so we were all in bc my husband has done this before and he has such a a passion for it .there are alot of pros and to me one con he wont be home as much but when he is hes home !!! Well he did his first load this past weekend and in 2 days made 3000$ that's alot for a 48 hour run !! Well I want him him to do it and be his own person and make the money he deserves!!

Well his dad has been the biggest asshole about it just bitching saying we lied to him and he can't believe we have fucked him like this !! I'm sorry but as a mother if my child came to me and told me I need to leave the business bc I need to make a future for my family financially wouldn't you think you'd be proud of your child for making that step and being a great man ???

I'm so over this shit I told him I dont want him in our delivery room I dont want him anywhere near me my son or anything on that day bc I dont want the bullshit or drama brought on a day that is about us and this beautiful life we are bringing in the world !!!

I have been so angry and loosing my shit and wanting to tell them all to go hell.

So do u think I'm right to not want this around