Cry it out

Hey mommas. I’m a first time mom to a 9 month old baby girl. She’s such a mommy’s girl, super clingy but I low key love it lol. I just recently started the get it out method. Some days are better than some but there’s a problem with doing it in the daytime it never seems to work.

I was doing some reading though and some people are saying the crying out method has some cons like, develop trust issues in the child, psychological issues, insecurities n some other stuff. Have any of you moms successfully completed sleep training using this method? How was your child afterwards? I just wanna make sure I’m not f$&king up my child. It’s already hard enough listening to her cry, it makes me feel like a bad mom and then reading that 🤦🏽‍♀️. Now idk what to do.