Would you be mad about this?

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So me and my OH were getting it on, I'm almost 30 weeks pregnant so I got on top because any other positions it's uncomfortable besides doggy well I was getting winded moving all that baby around, so he flipped me into the missionary position I told him I didn't want to be in that position, reason being was he always goes hard and at that angle it hurts my back(my lower back was hurting all day) well I told him to stop because my back was killing me well he kept going until he was done . After I felt disgusting for some reason and my back was hurting more for a while after that. I mean I would have flipped in the doggy position if he would have just listened to me, I don't know I'm just venting because I felt like he didn't care about my feelings just his....

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I would be very mad.  You may not feel this way (honestly I don’t know that I would either) but technically speaking, telling someone to stop having sex with you and then them not stopping is rape, even if it’s your husband.  I would have a serious conversation about consent and what is not ok with my partner.  I’m sorry he put you through this.

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He technically raped you, you told him to stop, he didn’t listen. He continued without permission. That’s rape. I’d be more than mad.

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I would be very upset. You didn’t give consent for that position, and he should have listened to you instead of being selfish and finishing. Consent is a fluid thing, and you can say no at any point and he needs to listen to that.

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When you tell someone to stop and they dont, that is rape. Even if it started out as something consented. No means no, stop means stop.

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I’d be mad too. He might have been really close and that just took over. Tell him you didn’t feel valued and it was kinda creepy and you wouldn’t want bad experiences to take away from your sex life so he needs to listen to you and you need to be firm if this situation presents again. Also he owes you a back rub.

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I know you might not think this because it’s someone your in a relationship with... But when someone doesn’t stop, it is rape. I’m really sorry that he didn’t take you or your feelings into consideration.
When I was younger my boyfriend of 3 years wanted me to try

And I agreed. I immediately started crying and saying stopped. He told me it’ll be fine just to hang on. Mind you he told me to be quiet cause his parents were in the other room (we were on vacation). 
I was just in silence with tears going down my cheek.
I didn’t realize until years later that even if he was my boyfriend, that was rape. And 100% not ok.

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Gran him by the bald squeeze as hard as you can and tell him I SAID STOP!!

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..second comment  ..if anything happened n u wemtninto labor early some hospitals cant handle this..in my town I d have to drive an hour away n the hospital would try to stop labor and keep bedrest going( at the hospital).till 36 weeks.Sex doesnt induce labor unless u have a lowering placenta ( which 19nweek ultrasound would show usually) but damn I m pissed ..If U were my sister I d fuck this dude up For real .Trust me ..lots of men are attracted to a single mom

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That sicks..He disrespected you and the life inside of U.This is not ojay.Tske it from a woman who has been raped more than once and disrespected also.His disrespect will only get worse.I d be OUT ..GONE..U domt need any man to raise a baby..especially one that doesnt keep U SAFE ..SAFE..SAFE ;(

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