Have any of you in a blended family every felt like, or have actually left your significant other over their kids. I can’t take my 11 year old stepson anymore. It’s been 2 years, and I’m just at my wits end. My boyfriend finally sided with me for once, but it just seems to little to late. I love my boyfriend more than anything and we have a 1 year old together and I would hate to break up our family. I just can’t take the stress anymore. And it’s not fair on my son to see me always upset. I adore the other 4 kids. My family adores his kids. It’s just the 11 year old and he’s the one who lives with us cuz his own mom doesn’t even want to deal with him.