Have you ever seen something on your mans phone/laptop that broke your heart?

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This is a weird question, but I just want to hear your stories and comments about seeing something on your mans/woman’s/partners phone that made you upset or hurt you or maybe even broke your heart? 
It could be porn, dating apps, nude pics, weird google searches, convos with other people that were flirty or about sex, ect. 
Tell us what you saw, what did you do afterwards, how did it affect your relationship? 
(Just to tell you about my story, my bf and I went thru a rough time for the past couple of months and I saw on his phone that he downloaded a couple dating apps. Honestly it broke my heart. we are no longer together)

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No. His phone is his. My phone is mine. We don’t look at each other’s stuff. 
Sounds like it’s good that you exited this relationship.

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He had a picture saved on his computer titled dummy thiccc.
It was a picture of thanos 😂 
 
Didn’t break my heart but it was so weird I had to share

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I mean, we share an Amazon account and I once looked through the search history on the account to find something I'd been looking at a couple days before and saw he'd looked at something called 'Fart in a can' and that was pretty fucking weird but that's about it 🤷🏼‍♀️

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There’s something called manipulators  and those are the people you don’t give another chance to. People will tell you not give up but you shouldn’t have to constantly fight for your relationship. If your spouse uses the I only want you phrase as a response to infidelity that right there is a red flag.Just because he or she gave you a tittle doesn’t mean they can treat you like whatever and you should stay. I can buy a home tomorrow but if I tag on it or burn it down best believe there will be consequences. Is the person placing blame on you or others. I could go on and on but repeated toxic behavior is just a sign to let the shit go. I was seeing a guy and he loved giving his number /social media out to females you know that he met like two min ago who just all of a sudden was great friends with. Once he found out a friend of mine who I’d met literally months ago had added me and his face said it all so yeah if they don’t like it or wouldn’t why should you fuck the excuses.

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Yes after we were married I woke up ay like 2 am to go pee and his pbone lit up and there was a message that said Kat sent you a snapchat. I immediately assumed the worse and went fucking crazy. Apparently that was his highschool friend and they still occassionally talked using that app and she sent it at 2am cause she does nightshift work. He showed me the message and it was boring af talking about social economics and zombies lol. He showed me other stuff and said he can tell herto stop contacting him but i was like it is fine. I knew before i married him a lot of his friends were girls. I felt bad.

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At the very beginning of our relationship, he would get random blocked phone calls but never answered them. I went through his phone one day (I know) and there were a couple pics of womens breasts and a naked girl saved for some contacts and one was a pic of his dick. I flipped out, and he tried to explain them to me. One was a crazy stalker he had slept with one time and she was married and he didnt know about the husband and cut contact with her and blocked her, but for some reason her texts would still come through and she was obsessed with him. (She is truly nuts,  she blew up my fb when she found out who I was and would stalk us and tell me that I was at his house too long cuz she would be waiting outside) 
The naked girl was his friend who had passed away and before she passed, she wanted to feel beautiful and had taken some risque pics. This was the only picture he had of her. The picture of his dick was for the spam calls..you know the ones that are from out of state and try to sell you stuff. (I looked at the numbers, they were the spanmers) After I got upset he realized it hurt me and deleted all of the pics, even the one of his friend, even though I told him he didn't have to, esp if that was his only pic of her.

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Yeah .... he was going out of state to visit family and I happened to use his phone and he had email open and it was another girl in that state talking about hanging out ... I confronted him he said lapse in judgement and nothing would happen ... I hope that's true but now it's got my mind racing about stuff I never thought before

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Porn lol sounds stupid right? When he were freshly into our relationship like 3 months in or so i would always get so irritated bc everytime i got on his phone to use it i would find porn i was pregnant at the time so it was mostly my hormones but it would make me furious like my heart would skip a beat and feel like it was about to beat out of my chest. Personally it was bc i would ask him to stop watching it i told him why bc it made me feel so insecure and i didnt like the way it mislead men about woman and he would promise me would stop. There are times i couldnt stop myself from going through his phone knowing what i was going to see which would lead to a fight. If he deleted his history he would forget to delete his google search he wasnt very smart about it lol it got so bad to the point we broke up over it he had an addiction he would deny it but i had proof eventually i realized i would rather let him watch porn then lose him💁 looking back now i felt like a selfish dumb little girl🤦.we have now been together almost 7 years and now i couldnt care less if he watches it well as long as i dont know about it. The other day i had to use his phone to order a pizza and i see in the seach bar porn videos but i didnt care, my heart didnt start going crazy like it use too bc i grew up and realized its not like hes cheating on me so why should i care. As far as i know he doesnt watch it as much as he use to and as long as were having sex then its all good💯

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No, I haven’t, so I guess I’m lucky 🤷🏻‍♀️

Have you ever seen something on your mans phone/laptop that broke your heart?

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