Why am I so stupid?

I really like this guy but I just encouraged him to talk to another girl that likes him 🙂 He’s not mine and has shown no signs of liking me (I think?) sooo... i want him happy even if it’s not with me.

I want to tell him but he doesn’t even live in the same country and I wouldn’t want to ruin our friendship. (Sorry if this isn’t the right group)