Am I tripping?

So my so works abroad from time to time.... I’ve had to speak with him on several occasions about checking in. He repossess cars. I understand it being stressful at times, but he gets guns pulled on him, etc. I can’t help wanting to make sure he’s ok. All I ask is that by the end of the night that he checks in with me. At least text me the hotel that he’s staying while he’s checking in if that makes it easier. For some reason.... he never gets it right. Never tells me what hotel. I’m tired of bringing it up. I get bored easily, and my relationships usually don’t last long because I ignore red flats or the boredom. He just got home and had some clothes in a bag... said he was swimming. So the first thing that comes to my mind is huh? You had time to swim but you texted me at 6:00am saying I’m in for the night without saying where he was again. Am I wrong for thinking a lil crazy? When I go to run errands, he’s right on me calling.... trying to see how long it’s going to take, or where I’m at.... I dunno. 🤷🏾‍♀️