I’m so lost!!! I need some comfort 😭😭
Very long post
I’m 17 and I love on my own. I’m 36 weeks pregnant as well. Well this is what happened... I have a 19 almost 20 year old boyfriend, I’m also about to be 18 in June. Where 2 years 2 months and 2 days apart. His birthday is this month. Well my parents HATE him with all they have in them for some reason (all because he tries his hardest to make everything perfect for us, and will never give up on a failing situation) and they hate it they say he’s so disrespectful for it and he’s a piece of garbage. Well I had invited him over for his birthday, my parents don’t want us seeing each other and I just wanted to give him some dinner and his gift. So all of a sudden that afternoon my parents just barged into MY HOUSE and I hid him. They found him and threatened to kill him. He was yes siring my dad and did everything he said yet my dad said he’s a piece of sh** for being there that he fu**** up my life my dad told him to leave he said yes sir he would but then! My dad wouldn’t let him. I was just crying. He told my mom, she tried to burn me with a cigarette for not letting her attack him. He didn’t even fight her or anything he just kept apologizing and said he’d leave. I do love on there property but they just don’t like us seeing each other never told him he couldn’t come over just never let him. They called the cops to have a trespass put on him because of all this I pushed them out of my house locked the door and sat him down he kept saying he can’t go to jail. I reassured him he wouldn’t (he didn’t) the cop arrived knowing my mom she’s a huge lair and told the cop the wrong information trying to have him arrested. They just talked to him he kept saying he will just leave he just came to grab his stuff. I told him no matter what we go through if he goes down I go down so I followed him with the cop until I couldn’t. I went back inside and cried then I received a text from him saying we can’t talk until I’m 18. I ran outside asked what’s going on my mom said the cop had said it so I asked the cop he said no your mother did so I asked her again and she said the cop said it but he kept saying he didn’t. They made my bf walk off the property and wait for his ride, he did I kept going to him to cry and love on him, but my mom ended up trapping me in my house. She made me come inside there house and talk but it wasn’t no talk they got up in my face saying I was a “trashy slu*** mother, I’m not keeping my baby and they’ll make sure of it, I can go to hell, I’m a bit** I’m just a who** who opens my legs for anyone. So my mom took my phone and went through it. Found all my bf and I’d sexting, photos and videos and watched them! Then made my dad watch them! Like there was no glancing they opened them and WATCHED EVERY SINGLE VIDEO FROM START TO FINISH and acted like they liked it! I was so grossed out! She gave my phone back and said I was to never call or text him ever again that she’d have him arrested for having sex with me. I went outside to him and told him from across the yard and my mom and dad came outside trying to attack me again and he got involved saying “don’t put your hands on my girl she’s pregnant!” They turned around and said that’s not your girl you piece of lying sneaky nasty trash! You and your family deserve to die! Your mother hates you and doesn’t love you and if you have a problem with it come over here and we can fight. I’ve never seen my parents be like this before now I’m about to be homeless AGAIN and I’m having my baby in 2 weeks my mom said she’ll do everything in her power to make me lose this child. Which she’s done from the beginning. I’m just so lost I talked to him for the whole time he was outside and I was in. But I just don’t know what to do. He says no matter what he’s here for me and loves me but I don’t know if I can trust it yet still even after this my question is should i? He’s never given me a reason to not. I’m just so so stressed and need emotional support right now again I’m so so sorry this is so long.
Update:
I live in Florida and my boyfriend is a step up to my child.
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