Could I be unable to have kids?

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I’m 18...and I’m just gonna be candid, we’re all girls here...I’ve kinda hoed around over the past couple years of my life. My body count is 16 and I’ve had A LOT of unprotected sex over the course of these actions. I’ve never had a guy cum inside me, but just the amount of times I’ve had unprotected sex and never gotten pregnant worries me. My worst fear in life is not being able to have kids and I want everyones option...could I be unable to have kids, or am I just extremely lucky? Now I’ve settled down and we are planing on starting a family soon. I feel I would let my boyfriend down so much if we weren’t able to have kids in the future but my past scares me since Ive had sex so much. What do you think?

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I mean.. I’ve had my fair share of hoe-ing around unprotected and never got pregnant until I wanted to. 
I was extremely lucky, it may be the same for you. My advice, go to dr and get yourself checked.

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I think you're overthinking it. I've had a lot of sex too without getting pregnant and it definitely hasn't effected my chances of getting pregnant. Some easily get pregnant while others don't, but that doesn't mean you can't have kids and then it's also all about timing. 
Btw, this isn't an all female app. There are some females with their male partners on here. I haven't seen them much, but there are definitely men on this app.

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Sometimes it takes specifically trying and knowing when you ovulate and having sex without pulling out to get pregnant. I wouldn’t assume you would have trouble getting pregnant.

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As long as you were having STI screenings & are clear for that I wouldn’t worry too much. You only have a small window of opportunity to get pregnant per cycle. It can take some healthy couples a year or so with tracking & trying to get pregnant. But it never hurts to bring it up to your dr

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Pulling out doesn’t work for some, but works for others. You may be one of the people it works for.  I’ve used the pull out method for like 10 years and never had a scare. I got pregnant very easily each time I intended to. I really wouldn’t worry about it.

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I used the pullout method with my fiancé for months without getting pregnant, and had the same worry, that one of us was infertile (he’s also 48). The VERY first time he actually came in me we got pregnant.

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You shouldn’t worry about that yet. Yes, some people get pregnant super easily but even young, healthy couples can expect to try for a while before getting pregnant. Couples are only advised to go to a fertility specialist if they’ve been trying for at least a year with no success. That’s even while keeping track of ovulation and making sure to have sex in fertile windows and all that. Don’t stress! You should definitely be using protection right now though.

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You could just be very lucky. I didn't hoe around and have only had sex with one person, but we started having unprotected sex when I was 17, including him nutting inside. I guess because we were young and stupid. 
And we didn't get pregnant until I was 22 and we were "trying". And I had no issue getting pregnant with my second child when my first was a year old and my third when my second was a year old. During those 5 years, we both wondered if one or both of us was unable to have kids because we had so much unprotected sex during that time. Turns out we were just lucky and it didn't happen until we were ready.

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I feel like I've seen this post before.
Try not to make up stuff for yourself to worry about. I mean that in the nicest way, haha. If you've never tried to conceive, don't freak yourself out with worrying until you've given it a good solid try.
It can take several months to a year for a healthy couple to make a baby. It's possible you got very lucky.
Make an appointment with your obgyn, get a pap smear, get your labs checked, get checked out and talk to them about starting to try for a baby.
You're very young, so you have plenty of time to figure it out.
Good luck

Could I be unable to have kids?

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