Recently my man and I were getting intimate he pulled out my toy, used it on me for a bit then asked me to use it on him, I froze and he did it himself. I didn’t know what to do or say so I left the room. When I came back he was angry and said he will never open up to me again and that I made him feel gross. I didn’t mean to I just have a lot of mixed thoughts and feelings and questions. He won’t even talk to me about it now and I’m scared it has ruined our relationship. We’ve been together almost a year exactly. We live together and my children call him dad. What do I do?