Feeling a little unsupported by my best friend (sorry long rant)

My best friend has always said she doesn’t want kids, she thinks they are too much work and her boyfriend is super anti-kids. Which is fine, and she knows I’ve always felt the complete opposite. But I can’t help but feel like she is judging me a little bit now that I’m actually pregnant, she openly makes comments about how she is so glad she never has to worry about kids, when referring to our other friends with kids she says she’s so glad she’s not in their shoes. I guess I just wish she would be more respectful of my life choice and realize that even though it’s not meant for her, it can be a blessing for some. I would never tell her how empty I would feel if I were to never have kids because that is obviously not respecting her decision to not have kids.

Today, she made a comment that just really kinda hit me the wrong way. They are getting married in Hawaii next year sometime in the spring or summer, they only want us and their parents attending. Our baby will be around 6-10 months depending on when they choose. We plan on leaving the baby at home as we have plenty of family members here who would be happy to watch them. Her comment was in response to her stepmom asking her if we were bringing the baby. In response she said “oh no there’s no way I would want them to bring the baby, they would ruin the vacation” this just really hurt my feelings. I would like to think that if my husband and I were willing to drop money on a hawaii trip that she would be ok with us bringing the baby if we had no choice. I think she just thinks babies suck the fun out of everything and I’m worried about what our friendship will turn into considering our baby will be our number one priority in our life and for most events I will be bringing my baby.

Does anyone else have friends like this? How did you cope?