Addiction to Women?

I want to know if someone can give me some advice about what’s going on with me and my husband.

Over the past six years that we have been together we’ve finally decided to get married this past January, everything has been great or that I thought. I have always known that he would message other girls on Facebook just like a simple conversation or something like that or even on WhatsApp. I once wrote about it on here if I should be mad about him talking to other one women and many of the comments were he should be able to have friends so I trusted him. Once we got married he stopped. But then after a certain period of time he went back again to his habit of doing that which I told him again to stop. After we got married there have been four incidents already where I have been telling him to stop and it just keeps happening again.

He works in Louisiana during the week and then he comes back to Texas for the weekend. Sometimes he comes back every two weeks whenever he’s tired from work Last Thursday I saw a message from a random woman on his Facebook that said “as long as you don’t lie to me I promise you you and me will go to the end of the world.” I have his facebook account & he knows it When I saw the message I called him I was very angry and he said no I don’t know who she is it’s probably just something random just ignore it. The following Friday the next day I noticed something was wrong because he would be online on WhatsApp but he wouldn’t answer me either phone calls or messages.

Around 9 PM I checked his location and I saw that he was already here in Houston at a restaurant/bar so when I called him and asked him he said no I’m not here he said I’m coming back Saturday so I told him I know you’re here I’m on my way. He did not tell me he as coming !! 

As soon as I arrived we went outside in my truck to talk and he was very drunk but I think with with the talking he got to calm down a little bit and he was able to understand what was going on I told him about the lady from yesterday from the messages and he said it was nothing. So I told him can I see your phone he said I’m a be very honest with you there’s some messages are bad and I know it’s gonna be a problem and he didn’t want to give me the phone. I was able to get the phone and he went inside to the restroom I was able to go through his phone. To start of his wallpaper he changed it to the lady from the messages and the conversation that he was telling me about was actually hurt they were talking about how they were going to meet there we’re gonna go to hotel she gave me her address. I doubt that he was going to go because she lived in college station and we’re in Houston. He even told her I might not know you but I feel like can have a thing.

I guess you can say I wasn’t sad or crying because he had told me what to expect and I had already had a feeling from the day before I was more angry I was furious. How he would ruin a family marriage for some woman from Facebook that he doesn’t even know and he won’t see in his life. 

He told me that he needed help he said then ever since he was young he had a problem when just being with one person. He said that he can control himself like he feels like he needs to talk to other girls. He wants told me to get him psychology or couples counseling. help he said because he saw his mom with multiple persons at the same time he got to habit from her, I didn’t know what to do at the point I took his phone (that I bought) and just left him my truck I don’t know what happened after that all I know is he went back to Louisiana. He never saw the other person in real life it’s more of a Internet affairs I just need some advice if I should help him get the psychology help so we can try to work this out or should I just end everything right now. We barely got married in January and have a four-year-old together so I don’t know what to do.

Thanks for reading 🙏🏻