Baby daddy is confusing me!

I’m 21w 4d so quite far along and my baby’s dad is all over the place...

He doesn’t want to be a dad but is so excited about bringing our little boy up to love sports and play with him.

He doesn’t want to be with me but doesn’t want to have the baby without me there and wants me to spend the night with the baby after he’s born etc.

He doesn’t want to be a family but he wants to go on family outings to places like butlins and crealy etc.

He’s also said he’s bought me a birthday present but it’s for the baby so it’s not really a birthday present then is it 🤦🏻‍♀️

I just don’t know how to deal with this man 😕