I just wanted to say it to someone.

My boyfriend is my best friend, and recently he spends more time at his cabin then at home and now I don’t really see him and it’s starting to get annoying. Like I see him maybe 1 time a week and when I do he is working for my dad hangs with me for a little and then leaves. He got upset because he thought I would not be home for the 4th of July because my vacation because he wanted to spend it with me, but I will be home so I was excited because he wad gone last year for it. Guess what happened? He now dropped that plan because he wanted to go to his cabin and light fireworks instead. And did not even ask if I would wanna go. Our anniversary is coming up and I keep asking him if we can do something and he always says yes of course I’ll plan it but he never does we never actually go on dates. Of however long we have been dating we have gone on 2-3 real dates. When I plan something he says he would rather stay home. I am sorry I just needed to say it to someone and if I say it to him he will not care.