Bm drama 🆕

I met my current bf june 2019 . We started talking September 2019 .didn’t start dating till late November 2019. I met his son (3) February 2020 and his daughter (1) April 2020. He had been showed me a picture of his bm when we were talking before we dated he told me he ain’t been with her since their daughter was born . Well 2 days ago we went to the mall and I bought his kids outfits because he wanted to take pictures. Later he let me do his daughter hair. He posted the pictures on his Facebook . 3 hours later he’s on the phone arguing with his bm because she wanted to know if he had a female around their kids . And he was saying he don’t worry bout the dudes she has around them and how did she even see it if she’s blocked etc . He had the argument right in front of me and the kids so I ended up taking them to the backyard to play . We came in for snacks and the door bell rang. My bf was sleep. I answered the door and the woman said she was here for her kids . And I’m like she has the wrong address . (She was not the woman in the photo he showed me as his bm and they both had the same mom) so I told her to wait outside the door and as I was closing it she pushes it open and starts hitting me . I didn’t care but she wasn’t getting to the kids so I start screaming by bf name to get the kids and they come out the kitchen saying mommy ! And I’m like huh and my bf comes down the stairs to break us up and he pushes her outside and closed the door with me and the kids inside . He’s yelling at her saying she can’t just pop up at his house and stuff . I go to the bathroom to clean up and he comes back inside asks if I’m ok and starts to pack the kids bags . I’m like who was that and he’s like his bm and I’m like that’s not the woman he showed me and he’s like oh yea we weren’t official and I didn’t know if you were going to be messy like the last girl he was talking to who found his bm on Fb and was being messy he said he planned to tell me the truth but he forgot . Then said he’d talk to me after the kids were gone . The kids left . His bm called him saying he wouldn’t see his kids again . So I ask him when the last time he was sexually involved with her and he said to tell the truth he was messing with her while we were taking and it may have been a week into after we were dating cuz December 1 he claim he called it off with her . And I’m like wow . Then I get my things and I went home . We are still together but I haven’t talked to him the past 2 days even though he’s blown me up . I don’t even know what to say to him . Now I can’t trust he hasn’t been with her more recently.

What do I do ??