my boyfriend (we recently started dating a few months ago) and i have just began being sexually active and the other night right after we had sex he told me i’m vanilla. and explained all the stuff he’s into, i told him i would try some things but just not all at once, he then said again i’m just vanilla and that’s okay. also i’ve only had 3 sexual partners prior and just did regular things, so i’ve never tried what he likes, he doesn’t even want to try with me.. he just wants me to like it. now i feel like i don’t satisfy him. it really hurt my feelings but i didn’t know how to tell him that. i’ve only had 2 previous relationships and got cheated on in both, so my sexual confidence wasn’t that high to begin with. now i don’t feel like having sex with him at all because i feel unattractive and like i’m not good enough for him.