He’s having a visitor? WTF!

Let me start off by saying I haven’t had any visitors except my brother who stayed soooo far away from me to drop off a package 📦. He did not even come into the yard just put my package on the wall and had a faraway conversation (like across the street conversation) and waved and that’s all. I’m worried about getting sick and about my kids getting sick and about everyone else getting sick too so I try to stay at home as much as I can unless I really have to go to the market or something needed like that, but for the most part I get delivery 👍 I wear my mask to help out because that’s a way I can help out everyone else in the world and my family. I have bad asthma and so does my family. My sister has epilepsy and her meds make her immune system weak, one of my brothers have a heart condition and his meds make his immune system weak. I’m trying my best to stay in and follow the guidelines for everyone’s sake.

Well anyways my husbands sister is coming from Vegas to visit! She’s a very huggy person, which is risky in these covid days, and she’s going to stay for the weekend at her dads. She told my husband she wants to visit my kids and us. I told him we have been working really hard to stay safe for ourselves and everyone’s sake. He said he’s going to tell her that we aren’t having visitors right now, but he then went off about how my brother came and that why is it okay for him to come? I told him the reason why I was okay with it is because I can tell him to stay far away from me and the kids and it’s not a problem at all my brother understands. His sister doesn’t care about the virus going on which worries me. She’s told him she doesn’t believe it. That’s fine that’s her decision but my decisions are different. I told him I love his sister but I know her (I mean like really know her we have known each other since middle school) and the normal things we used to do like hug and be close are risky right now and we know that she’s not giving a care about what’s going on because well she said it and also we are not supposed to be visiting in the first place and she’s visiting! I told him it’s dangerous right now but he still went off on me. He told me that why is it always okay for my family (my brother) to come? My family has been taking precautions!!! They don’t come over. He then called me stupid and that I’m acting like my family is better than his family!!! I was then told that I started an argument that I started talking stuff first. I don’t like arguing first off and when I get into an argument I don’t call names! I told him I don’t appreciate being called any bad names. I’m so annoyed right now. I feel better that I typed it all out though. Is anyone else having this problem with their mate about this virus thingamajig? What are you doing to overcome these problems? I mean feel free to rant if you feel the need to. You might feel better too. Also any advice would help. Thanks in advance 👍

Update: I talked to him and reminded him about the way my brother stayed far away when he came. Also how my family is very understanding about how I feel about what’s going on, and it helps because they also feel the same way. That’s why no one has visited. I told him I’m not saying my family is better than his family. I just know that my family is taking lots of precautions and is being very understanding to this situation. He was still kinda bugged but I also had to remind him how his family is still throwing parties, bbqs, and having lots of people over during this time when we aren’t supposed to (I seen pictures/videos on IG). I told him the reason why I feel safer with my family is cause they are following the guidelines. I told him I am not saying anyone is better than anyone. All I’m saying is it’s easy to see who is not helping this situation at all and who is putting others at risk without a care. I also told him if it was the other way around I’d still feel the same way. He apologized. He talked to her and told her we are not having any visitors unless she is going to follow our rules just like my brother did. I don’t think she took it well, but hey better safe than sorry. In conclusion, she is not coming to visit us. Thanks for everyone’s responses! Stay safe and take care ❤️