Boyfriend’s Mother 🤦🏻‍♀️

I have dark brown hair and green eyes. I’m a pale girl but I’m not pale pale if that makes sense? My boyfriend’s mom ALWAYS points it out to me. She calls me a ghost and I’m like.. What? I personally like the look of dark hair, pale skin and bright eyes.. I think it looks pretty. It’s just the fact that she overreacts.. I’m not even that pale ffs 🤦🏻‍♀️ I feel the need to change my hair up now, just because of her comments. My hair is so delicate that if I put bleach in it, it’s just gonna damage it more.. Hence why I have a darker colour in it. I’ve bleached it before and it didn’t look healthy. She has no filter and says exactly what she thinks without knowing that it could effect the other person. What should I do?