Here We Go Again UGH!!!

Okay so about a year ago I got my first bartholin cyst. It was painful I never heard of it before so I called the dr, she told me that that’s what she thought it was and she told me warm compress etc. I did the whole warm compress thing and it popped after my first soak ami got smaller and smaller everyday until it was gone. Low and behold a year later now I have another one. I noticed it a week and a half ago because I felt a little discomfort down there. Funny thing is it’s on the opposite side this time, but it’s like a mirror image because it is in the same spot it’s just on the left this time instead of the right.

The first thing I did was soak and after I soaked later that night out of curiosity I gently put put pressure on it and it kind of half popped. However since then it has not popped any anymore and it is bigger and hurts really bad. It does weep a tiny bit, but nothing significant. Any advice would be appreciated. I really don’t want to go to the GyN right now because I’m immune compromised because of an autoimmune condition I have and it would be hard to find someone to take because my husband died March 24th and I’m currently living alone.