To make babies or to not make babiesšŸ¤”

Karly

I feel so weird posting on here, but I feel like I will get some unbiased opinions this way! šŸ˜…

I am 23 years old, almost 24, and my husband and I just got married on the 1st.

We’ve been together for 8 years and have talked about having kids of course but we always said ā€œlet’s just wait until after we’re marriedā€ Well now we’re married and my husband is already ready for a baby. šŸ˜‚ I can’t say I’m not ready, because I definitely am but I’m torn between do I want to wait a little bit and enjoy ā€œmarried lifeā€, even though it’s not that different from our previous life, or just jump into trying for a baby! I know a few people that have gotten married and had a baby all within their first year of marriage but some say it was the best decision they’ve made and others have said wait. šŸ™ƒ

I know I should just do what fits our relationship and I shouldn’t compare us to others. But I’ve always been so excited to start a family and now I’m getting cold feet and I don’t know why!

Any advice is appreciated. Thank you for your time! 🄰