Broken family

Please. May I please have some prayers and verses to refer to.

My dad along with my 2 sisters 2 brothers and mom shunned me and my husband last November for not telling them I went out of state sooner for a trip with my husband. Before they shunned us they spent 45 minuets passing the phone and telling us all what's wrong with us. My dad said he and the family want nothing to do with us, that I died when i married my husband, laughed at me and cursed at my husband. I went after them for months sending gifts at holidays asking for a christian mediator and they ignored me. I slipped into depression and had every part of my life suffer. I broke every night.

Then I discovered from my sister, who is also shunned from the family, that my grandpa had fallen ill. That very day my grandfather passed away. I reached out to them and both my husband and I visited to console their sorrow. Our family was at peace. It was a time fir mourning so i put all our issues aside.

Three weeks after reentering the family my family sat around me and told me how me wearing a mask offends them and proves that I don't have faith in God. They forwarded 2 texts that I had not replied to and said that I needed to reach out to them.I had begun to pull away from them as my wounds were all still there and being reopened.

I wanted to respond to my family with anger and let them know how much they hurt me but instead. I sent a prayer that I felt the Holy Spirit lead me to and told them I needed to separate myself to work on my heart.

My dad got a hold pf me the last few days and through text has told me how in christian I am for not forgiving them and ignoring and dividing the family.

Does anyone have a verse to help me calm me and respond in mire love?

Im patiently being led by the Spirit to strengthen and led me to who He needs me to be so that I don't damage the family more.

My dad reached out and demanded that I reach out to them because what im doing is unChrist like and because I didn't respond to formulate a response