Lower sex drive

This is probably going to seem like a weird question but does anyone know of ways to lower their sex drive?

My husbands sex drive is basically non existent and mine is average to high I guess. I try initiating sex a few times a week but he’s usually not interested. We only have sex 1-2 times a month. I’m really tired of wanting to have sex and him not being interested at all so I’m wondering if I can lower my drive so I won’t feel as unsatisfied as often.