Pregnancy sex

I was very sexually active with my husband during my first pregnancy, all the way up to 39.5 weeks. Never had any issues and genuinely enjoyed it.

This pregnancy, I don't let him near me with a ten foot poll. Not only am I not in the mood emotionally after running after a 17 month old all day but I'm so uncomfortable physically too.

So tonight, I'm 38 weeks and I want this kid out so I agreed to sex. It wasn't long (poor guy hasn't been that close to me in a month or more) and it wasn't that rough but OMG am I swollen as a result. I literally feel my vagina between my thighs. I looked in the mirror to make sure it wasn't the baby's head I was so worried.

Has anyone else felt like this or had this much trouble with pregnancy sex? I'm seriously contemplating an icepack to reduce pain and swelling 😬