E-cigs: Worth a Divorce?!

My husband forced me to quit smoking when we were dating. I did, and started using e-cigs with tobacco. I quit while pregnant (with twins) and been hiding it ever since. He caught me yesterday. Last time he said “if I catch you again, your getting out of this house!” Well, now it’s come to that point. And I’m getting the silent treatment.

I’m currently a SAHM and his name is solely on the mortgage, so he tells me “it’s not my house” and that “I don’t contribute since all I do is sit around all day!” 😡

I feel like he’s childish and Over-reacting. Yes, I should quit, but it’s not easy when your constantly stressed. Anywhere that would currently hire me wouldn’t pay enough to cover daycare expenses. And I have nowhere to go (all our family is 12+ hrs away).

I’m tempted to leave before he comes home and get a hotel for the night. Or wait til he’s home and leave the kids with him, but I don’t want that to ever be considered’abadonment’.

I didn’t wash any of his work clothes today.

Am I just making matters worse? Is it best to just “act normal”? I def don’t want the kids to be effected. What would you do?