Mommas ... anyone thinking of having another or on the fence about it?

My LO turned 1 on the 15th (hes my first)

I, for the longest time, never wanted children, been in a relationship with the daddy since I was 21 (im 30 now) we only got married in 2017 and I fell pregnant Jan 2019 (I was very happy & excited) then I said ... I will only have one and give this child everything (not like spoilt brat everything) like the best private education, savings account that we will billed and hand over to him when hes 18 and so on... stuff like that (I didn't have much as a child, we struggled my mom was single mom and was the very best mom but money was tight so our education was public and resources and opportunities limited) so I guess that's why I want to make sure, not matter how expensive, be able to give my LO every key to open any door he wants to later in life .... now ...

Man oh man... I really want another, a sibling for him to grow up with and someone to always have even long passed mom & dad passing on (old age!!! Lol) I can't imagine him not having that if we are no longer here... all mine & hubby's cousins live in other countries so their babies and our LO haven't met and may never ... I dont want him to miss out on that kind of family. BUT I'm worried with 2 LOs that I may not be Ble to afford to give them the best education and opportunities that will give them experience and culture and so on ...

I'm kind of on the fence here and not sure which way to go.

I feel like I'm selfish if I don't give him a sibling but then also if I do im reducing hes chances of having a good start to life ...

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Any thoughts/advice...

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