First time having sex after seperation

Ladies (esp those of a certain age)! Please, I need some words of encouragement/pep talk.... I’m 45 and recently separated. I’ve just started dating again after 20 years and damn there is a tall dark & handsome Italian MAN that is all kinds of inappropriate.... in all the right ways!! Problem is, he’s a player and doesn’t hide it. I don’t necessarily mind but I know we’re not going to have any relationship beyond sex... but I think maybe it’s good to “get back in the game” with someone who doesn’t have any illusions of where things could lead?? I need your stories of your first after a long term relationship - what was it like? Was it amazing to be with someone different? Did you feel guilty afterwards??? Just needing some sisterhood here.....