Whyyyyyyy???

Why did my period arrive 3 days early?! 😭 I’m devastated once again. My cycle has always been 28 days. After my first baby was born I got my period back a month or two PP back on track 28 day cycle 5 day period. I had my 2nd baby a year ago this month. After that baby my period came back again a month or so later (only breastfed/pumped for a month for both babies) After my 2nd baby my cycle has been off. I thought my periods were late but no, I started opk’s in August only to find out my cycle changed from 28 to 34. No wonder I haven’t gotten pregnant. We’ve been trying since April. Well after charting ovulation for two months and no peak recently since I only had 5 tests left. Now all of a sudden I get my period 3 days early!! What is going on with me?! 31 day cycle now. My hubby and I are both healthy. It’s becoming frustrating and depressing. I know some have been trying longer than we have. Took only 2-4 months to conceive our other 2 kids. Is my cycle just now started to get back to normal? I want my 28 day cycle back! 😩 I’m done tracking, it’s too stressful. Sorry for the long read and all over the place confusing rant. 😢