He really said this.. thoughts?

How would you feel if your man said this to you? My hair is puffy full thick but I have great hair.. I love it honestly it’s just hard to deal with sometimes. Anyway my child’s dad told I need to flat iron it because it doesn’t look right it needs to be straight my natural hair is nappy to him...? Idk he’s never said anything like that before but once he seen I had long hair he said he likes it more than weave now I don’t wear weave (I want to but can’t rn) n he says that🧐🧐