Boys to The Yard

Question: Did anyone else seem to get hit on more after having kids?

I have 2 kids now, and I'm no where close to my size before I had kids. I am teetering at 154lb. my size before kids was 134lb. With my 2nd u got up to 170lb. so I've made progress, but with this year being stressful I just kind of got in a funk and didn't want to try, but am back at trying go lose weight.

Im also not that pretty at all. I'm a pale Mexican, short 4'11, on the thick side, and look nothing like you way more beautiful women.

With that all said after I had kids I expect men to be repulsed by me, but I've had so many guys flirt with me, I've had exes message me and want to meet up and work things out even though I'm in a relationship that I've been in for 4 going on 5yrs. My partners friends have even been secretly sending me nasty messages. I ignore what they say and delete the messages, just because it's not worth the fight with my partner since I'm not sending anything back and they are good friends. 3 of his friends have messaged me. 1 of the ones messaging me once while we were hanging out drinking came into the kitchen to help me make up shots and touched my hair saying he liked what I did to it and would like to mess it up for me, then walked out. My partner has another friend who while we were drinking, me sober kept laying all over me and gawking at my chest and trying to look up my dress, I ended up changing into sweat pants. Another one who is both my partner and brothers friend was 17 at the time me 21 at the time and was Snapchating me. He usually snaps me about my brother who's in the marines asking how he is. But started to snap because he said he felt suicidal and I've always told everyone I meet I'll be there if you need someone to talk to but he started to snap me more and more just about everything wanting to talk. But he would snap full body pics in the mirror in his sweatpants and they're tight sweat pants and I could definitely see his hard on. I said once looks like you sent this to the wrong person. An he said back not at all 😏 and then was talking about wanting sex with a MILF and I said that I don't know of any at this point he turned 18. An he said that he knew one 😝 but she was in a relationship. An I said that sucks thinking he wasn't referring to me buy his friends mom who he jokes about wanting to bang. An he replied with a snap of him with his hand on his dick, with a caption saying he wanted to suck my tits and make me cum and hear me scream his name as he puts his baby in me.

I've also been flirted with at stories even in the baby section. An one guy stalked me around a store just to ask if I was single. I told my partner h knew the guy and threatened him. An I have gotten messages from men my dads age, who are friends with my parents.

Photos of me: see what I mean on the chunky side, short, and really not that pretty. I don't understand all this extra attention. So if anyone else has the same experience share or let me know if you know why.