How you guys manage hardships in LDR?🌍

Alexandra

Probably just like for everyone else this year wasn’t really happening as I planned. I guess we can say f**k you 2020! Am I right? So after this “amazing” year we reached December with full of hopes with my bf. Oh borders gonna be open again. We can meet finally. We can travel. We can go on dates etc. But it didn’t happen. He lives in the US and I live in Europe. We kinda lost hope that the borders will be open soon. We expect it maybe in spring time but who knows. And if missing each other wouldn’t be enough we got problems in our work area. We are both entrepreneurs. This year he lost a lot of money and got zero help from the US government because they found him not qualified. I also have a really stressful time with work. Just found out today that my work contract with the company gonna be annulled by January because they didn’t win the tender. So basically I need to get find another source of income. Summarizing it we got into a bit of financial struggle. Even if let’s say borders open up we won’t have money to splurge to travel. We haven’t seen each other for a year. After all this happened my bf feels lost. He don’t know what will happen or how he will get back on track. He said he needs to find himself. I feel a bit less lost and I still not giving up. But I feel like he might gave up in some ways...đŸ˜„ never faced such a situation before. And as an introvert I’m not really good at handling emotional situations.