Part II: Brought up relationship concerns, SO makes me cry, and ignores me for 7 hours

Hi lovely and empowering ladies, thanks for your responses on my last post regarding my SO doing all that the title says. Two days later, I find myself scheduling a call with him because of how hurt I was. Just got off that call, I am pretty shocked, and in tears:

As soon as I call him, I kindly tell him that I felt hurt with the way he responded to me when I brought up my relationship concerns the other day in an openhearted manner (I noticed him staring/glancing multiple times at women while we're in conversation in public). I explain that although he had expressed his side of the story which I was receptive to (he claimed that he was not looking at other women), when he immediately responded with anger, it made me feel like my feelings were dismissed. I further explain that he kept on saying that this was truth, but it could have been said without anger. And when I came home from talking with him that day, I cried that night and the next. I told him that the point of me telling him this is that I want to be open with him, and I am willing to work together on this.

He did not take it too well.

He accused me of trying to control him, then used my upbringing (my emotionally abusive parents) against me by saying that my mom can control my dad but I won't be able to control him. He goes on to say that me even bringing up this conversation gives him a glimpse of the future if we were to be married, how we would be unhappy and how it would be a huge regret for him, but it would be his fault because he could've avoided it. He continued by saying that he didn't want to leave but it is my fault for bringing this up, and now he does. He said that when I look back on this day, was me bringing this up worth it? He added that I sound kind but I am not kind to him because I bring up these concerns. He called me a very mean person–

This was so much for me that I felt overwhelmed. He said all of these things really fast, angrily, and condescendingly. I literally blurted out, "I'm done." He responded, "Well thank you for saying for me so I didn't have to say it."

After we were silent for some time and he continued saying that he thinks I'm beautiful and that I'll be fine, and that I'm not ready for a relationship. And that i should move out of my abusive household, and that he would have supported me all the way, but I chose to go against him. He said, "You've won the battle but you lost the war." For him, he explains that he will be fine–He's upset now but will be sad later, though he will get over it. Then he says we should cut all contact, that I should block him on everything and he will do the same. And that if he ever reaches out, it is him being weak to me but I should not agree to meet with him.

Ladies, he hasn't blocked me yet. But wow am I stressed. Thank you for sticking with me to the end. Is this conversation normal? Am I completely out of my mind and in the wrong, or is he the one who is being toxic?

If you want to my previous post about our earlier conversations see the image below: