Considering divorce from my husband. But struggling with how I would figure out custody. I do not trust my husband with our daughter alone. He has never been involved with her or helped out unless we were around people. Also he has had abusive tendencies toward his son from his previous marriage.(Smacking on head, throwing game controller at his head leaving marks, charging him and screaming in his face) I do not trust him to not get like that with our daughter when he gets mad. I do not want her to see his voilent outburst around the house. (Breaking 2 TV's,breaking blinds, punching and kicking holes in walls and doors. Maybe we could set up visitation in public area.. I don't know what to do!