Postpartum insecurity

Is anyone else struggling with insecurity pp?! I’m 4 weeks pp and my vagina just looks terrible. It was my first baby and I had second degree tears all the way down to my butt. I got sowed up but it just looks terrible 😔. Also my vagina and butt crack got very very dark during pregnancy and hasn’t lightened up I read it’s supposed to lighten but it hasn’t yet and idk if it will. Also on my pregnant belly my stretch marks were really low on my belly and not at all prominent but now that my belly has gone down a lot they’re so high up and just look way worse than at the very end of my pregnancy. Does anyone have any tips or just any advice ??