IM SOOO OVER IT 😩

I recently found out that I possibly have Scalp Psoriasis my scalp was extremely dry flaky and irritated now my hair is falling out I’m sure it’s all due to stress I was told not to brush or comb my hair too much due to everything anyway I told my boss about it weeks ago so yesterday I decided to do a treatment and wrap my hair up she had a problem with it but then turned around and told the director it was ok soooo I wrapped my hair again today for work NOW ITS A PROBLEM AGAIN idk what to do I want to protect my hair for the weather etc now I don’t want to goto work tomorrow I feel like she should be more understanding I work at a daycare my hair being wrapped isn’t harming anything...what do you guys think?