Anal...yea or nay?

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So my bf really wants to try it but he thinks lots of lube and sticking it in is the way to go. I have also heard that you should start out with something small like a pinky finger or something else equally small. I always said that I would never do it as I have always thought of my butt as an exit only hole but I have been thinking about it ever since he brought it up. Since I am on the fence about it I thought I would ask and see if anyone had any thoughts, ideas, suggestions? Thanks.

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It is about you being comfortable...
​My fiance bugs me about this one... When the day comes that he lets me put something that big in his backside, I'll gladly let him try. Before that happens, I just don't think it is something I personally am comfortable with... It doesn't 'turn me on.' It makes me want a shower. Some people like certain things more than others! Don't do it just for him! Only try it if YOU want to. Be safe! Don't use the same condom in the front afterwards, or it can lead to a serious infection. Front to back, like wiping.

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I didn't use anything to prep myself & having my man be large in tht area some ppl would've... We didn't use any lube either we jus started slow & once it was in completely it didn't hurt anymore.. But everyone is different

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That pressure is SO uncomfortable!  I don't see how you ladies do that on a regular

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I tried it didn't like it so Havnt done it again but I'd at least try it incase u do like it. Each to their own and u don't know unless u try xx

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If I'm slightly intoxicated I love it otherwise ehh not so much make sure you use lots of lube

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I've tried it a few times I use to think like you and say it's an exit not an entrance then after some discussing it and trying it I enjoyed it at first it hurt but then when it was in it didn't don't try to rush it take it slow and four play is always great and use lube even if it's your own

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Yes, it's a muscle. Ever here that saying "stretch so you don't pull a muscle". Starting out small is best cause it loosens you up. I'm not an anal fan, like you that's my exit hole. But if you do try it then lube, going slow, and some 4play first is the best way to go. He needs to understand that it's not like your vagina, he can't just stick it in, that can hurt you. Also don't feel pressured to do it if you don't want to or you're not ready.

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I can't never , I'm too scared I shit everywhere ???????

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Yea do it with lube. Bare back hurts so bad. But once he does stick it in, yeah  it won't hurt as much, but if its your first time doing it. Just tell him to go slow. And if you don't like it you can always tell him to stop. I've done it b4 and if you do it more often it wont hurt as much.

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To each their own... ☺️. I don't care for it, but some people LOVE it. I personally have had problems with the few times we've tried it. But (no pun intended... Hehehe) more my fault then anything, couldn't relax, and I've had tearing so I'm a little too sensitive. We've really only had success, when we both Very Much enjoyed it, once. But we may try again I'm the future. 
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​::TMI PART-IF YOU DONT WANNA KNOW WHAT WORKED FOR US, STOP READING NOW!!::  We used Astroglide (best/only stuff that works), we layed in a spooning position, with (at least my knees) at a 90° angle, he worked from one finger, up to a several, then all the way, while kissing on me and keeping me engaged yet relaxed.

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