Who else have difficult, control freak moms?!

I have seriously had it with my mom. She was always away at work cos she was the breadwinner which we kids understand but what we never understood is when you're so shit stressed up with god know's what, why do you need to come home and pick on stuff and say really hurtful things? I've always looked out for my little brother and two nights ago he went out and came home 1am, when my mom found out she went in to a rage and scolded both me and my brother, me i got "you've only got ONE brother!!! you cant keep him in line?! i am here working on weekends! no mom works on weekends!". every time my brother does stupid things i've tried really hard to still reason with him cos he's a growing TEEN! talking in a crazy deranged way wont teach him anything.. sometimes i wonder why the fuck my mom chose to be a mom if she cant lay one stupid " brick" down, which is how to talk to kids properly... this is why i dont bother telling her im pregnant. I have half the crazy mind to go ahead and host my gender reveal without inviting her.. i'm seriously so disappointed and have had enough. I had to deal with this shit since i was 16.. now im 26 you're still the same deranged highly strung woman.